MY FIANCÉ IS STUDYING TO BECOME A JEHOVAH’S WITNESS. What Questions Can I Ask To Challenge His Decision?
“I am a committed Christian, but my fiancé just started studying to become a Jehovah’s Witness. The thought of one of my closest loved ones joining this cult scares me. He has two sisters who are very hypocritical Jehovah’s Witnesses. What should I do? What questions should I ask and what should I avoid when talking to him about his choice of religion?”
It is good that you are concerned about the decision your fiancé has made to begin studying with the Jehovah’s Witnesses. The fact that his sisters are Jehovah’s Witnesses and the fact that he waited until you were committed to marrying him before he started “studying” to join this religion makes us wonder if he had prior experience in this religion and has just been waiting for the right time to bring this religion into your relationship.
Do you know if he was raised as a Jehovah’s Witness? Was he baptized into the Jehovah’s Witnesses but “disfellowshipped” (kicked out) prior to meeting you? If his sisters are recent converts and this is his first experience with the Jehovah’s Witnesses, there is a good chance that he simply doesn’t know what he is getting into and you may be able to intervene to help him change his mind. Continue reading “My Fiancé Is Studying To Become A Jehovah’s Witness. How Can I Challenge His Decision?”